"I don’t want to hear about the endless struggles to keep romance exciting, or the work it takes to plan a date night. I want to hear that you guys watch every episode of The Bachelorette together in secret shame, or that one got the other hooked on [Monk] and if either watches it without the other, they’re dead meat. I want to see you guys high-five each other like teammates on a recreational softball team you both do for fun. I want to hear about it because I know it’s possible, and because I want it for myself." -Mindy Kaling

i love this quote. but the best part about it is that i can change that last sentence to...  "i want to hear about it because i know it's possible, and because i have it for myself."